If you’re getting married or civilly partnered, a legal ceremony is a must, but by itself cannot tell the full, glorious story of you...
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the way your union blends cultures, traditions or religions
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the people you couldn’t have made it this far without
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your strange hobbies or questionable taste in music
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the quirks you love most about each other
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the places that punctuate your relationship
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the bumpy or smooth journey you've travelled to get this far
...and all the other weird, wonderful, romantic, sentimental, funny and meaningful traits and experiences that make your love story unique.
That’s why more couples are choosing to do the legal bit low-key, followed by a celebrant-led celebration that tells the real story.
I will write and deliver a ceremony that’s anything and everything you want it to be… and more.
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If you're not planning to legalise your marriage until later, or even at all, I can conduct a Commitment Ceremony, which will look and feel very much like a wedding celebration ceremony except with a few key words removed or changed. It will still be a massive celebration of togetherness and tell your unique story. My service and pricing is the same as a Wedding Celebration Ceremony.
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Read my blog about getting married legally in England and Wales.
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As an Independent Wedding Celebrant, I have total freedom to include religious elements - such as readings, rituals and music - or keep it completely humanist for a secular ceremony. I can also incorporate symbolic rituals, like handfasting, a candle or sand ceremony, jumping the broom or cocktail making... or I can help you create a new ritual that's totally 'brand you'.​​​​
How we'll work together.
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Story Gathering
It all begins with a friendly, no-pressure chat, to see if we click. If it feels like a good fit, I’ll send over a booking form to secure your date, and a questionnaire to help me get to know your day inside out. Then we'll get together for our story-gathering meeting, ideally in person at your venue, where you can paint me a picture of how it all began - how you met, what made you realise this was it, how the question was popped and what your life together looks like. It’s where your ceremony story starts to take shape.
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Ceremony Writing
After our meeting, I take all those notes, memories and moments and weave them into your bespoke ceremony. If you’d like your friends or family to take part, I’ll find thoughtful ways to include them, whether that’s through readings, music, or even a surprise performance! And if there are symbolic rituals that hold meaning for you - handfasting, candle lighting, jumping the broom, or something totally unique - I’ll weave those in too. I’ll share a draft for you to review, and together we’ll polish it until it feels just right.
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Ceremony Delivery
When the big day arrives, I’ll be there nice and early to make sure everything runs smoothly, checking in with your venue and key suppliers so everyone’s on the same page. I’ll brief your key people and anyone taking part, so they know exactly what to do and when. I’ll lead your ceremony with warmth and presence, guiding your guests, your readers, and anyone involved in symbolic rituals. Afterwards, you’ll receive a commemorative certificate and a digital presentation copy of your full ceremony.
Optional Add-Ons
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On-site ceremony rehearsal with key people
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Vow writing service
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Printed presentation copy of your ceremony
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Printed Order of Ceremony for all guests
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Sign language interpreter
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Foreign language translator
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Filming and live streaming services (scroll down for more details)
Please note: if you’re planning a symbolic ritual involving candles, sand, ribbons or something else, I’ll help with the ideas, and you source the props.
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Contact me for prices and more information.
Captured On Film
As a filmmaker, it would be remiss of me not to offer videography and content creation services. I'm pretty good at multi tasking, but even I can't officiate and film at the same time. I can, however, sort it all out for you with hand-picked videographers, content creators and technicians.
Event Videography & Content Creation
Wedding videos have come a long way - they're now more like documentaries, shot with creativity and cinematic feel. A film is a timeless reminder of your day - options include highlights, full ceremony and speeches. Wedding Content Creation is the current trend, in addition to or as well as a wedding film. Shot on phones by a dedicated content creator, it's a set of short reels to capture the 'realness' of your day.
Engagement Film
Now here's a gorgeous idea: a film of your Love Story that you can send out with your invites and even play at the ceremony to get everyone in the mood. We spend a fun-filled day capturing your story in words and larking about to get some footage of you being all loved-up. I then edit it with music to create a 2-4 minute homage to your relationship. If you want guaranteed tears at your ceremony, this is the way to go.
Event Live Streaming
There may be some important guests who just can't make it to your ceremony but still want to be part of your big day. I can organise live streaming of your ceremony that can be accessed by a password-protected link from anywhere in the world. It can also be recorded for future viewing pleasure. We'll need to involve your venue in our planning so we can ensure uninterrupted streaming, so the earlier we can make plans, the better.
